Have you ever wonder about checking your partner’s mobile phone?
I am convinced that all girls have checked mobile phones of their boyfriends. Ok, I should admit that possibly even all women. But I believe that most of them. E.g., all of my female friends have done it earlier. Last weekend I met my girlfriends in the evening. We made some drinks and couldn’t stop talking all night. 1 of us wanted to check if her partner is loyal to her, we started discussing the subject of checking boyfriends’ cells for at least two hours. You might be curious about were our conclusions. I may basically divide my friends into three categories. There were 10 women, all of us had a boyfriend.
In consequence, I believe that we were pretty good test group for such sociological study. To begin with, there are women which claim to never check their partner’ cells. To be honest, I am not sure if I believe them. I mean – this might be true that they didn’t do it, but I am convinced that the only reason for this is because they didn’t have a chance to do this.Secondly, there are females who did that just once and never did it again.
For instance, my good colleague Elisabeth has checked her boyfriend’s mobile phone. Her purpose was to check whater he didn’t have somebody else. She was looking for some texts from other women, or even erotic videos. What she managed to find was, e.g., e-mail about truck wraps nyc and messages from his brother. After this experience, she made a decision that she can trust him and never check his mobile phone again. The 3th group was the biggest one. This was constituted by femals who check their boyfriend’ cell regularly. Some of us actually found something previously.
Thus, they believe that they really have right to keep on checking their partners’ mobiles all the time. Many of them didn’t find anything suspicious, but keep on doing this just in case. I believe that I belong to the third group. I know that it is not something to be proud of. However, I cannot fight it. I feel much confident when I am sure that my boyfriend is faithful. Some guys may criticise it, but I am sure this makes our relationship better.